I am all about the kiss and the eyes, you have to have both! And i am shallow at the same time... well i consider myself shallow too. I do not date guys that are over weight. I feel if you let yourself go, you'll let the relationship go! But i am able to read eyes, can tell what thouhts are most of the time. Eyes give away a huge story. I enjoy reading these stories. They sort evrything so clearly... and whether it be a picture or in person, I wish i could find the guy with a great mix of them both. I am also about the face, if you have agreat smile or great facial structure i will fall in love with you at first sight! I may be jealous a bit though... however i will never show it b/c i am modest, not arrogant. A kiss shows me exactly where things should go. I can teel exactly what you are wanting and to what extent or volume, by the kiss, whether i let it go to there is a whole nother concept, as you will see a little later i am a tease... only becasue i have certain morals... i like to keep b/c i promised myself that! Respect it and i may open up a little more... people call me a hopeless romantic, b/c they say i will never find exactly what i am looking for, however i say i am only looking for a portion, and if i get just a little of what i am looking for, I'll be able to die knowing my business has been finished. I am a very emotional person. not to the sense where you say, 'you've lost weight' and i reply, 'I was FAT!?' and go on a binge... lol but to the point I am in touch with how i feel and do not display fear in allowing people to see it. I will cry when i see it fit when it is necessary. Moreover, I like to communicate with someone how i feel b/c i may be able to realate with them... That is something else i am looking for, someone i can share how i feel with.. i want them to know my thoughts and be able to read them or see them coming. I want to be trusted, b/c i will trust. and i want to be given freedom, because i will need my comfort and space... sometimes at the same time. I am bi-lingual, and when you learn another language you learn to be to the point with what you say Or you will confuse the other person with the literal translations, from your first language to the second. I want to Learn Japanese, French, Greek, Slov, Russian, Cantonese, and Latin. I speak Italian so i am close to Latin, but not on the money. I take pride in my Heritage and like people to know it. I am into language and want to be emersed into the cultures as well. I am blunt with what I say and what I do I like to go shopping for other people. When I go shopping I know exacltly what I want and do not waist time looking around! I am a nice person, to those who deserve to recieve the 'nice treatment.' I am openly Gay and enjoy meeting people. I like to try new things with some restrictions and exceptions, of course. I am a High School graduate attending PC to obtain a Ph.A. then will continue to OC or UW for my Ph.B. I am a military brat so i have lived all over the world. Recently movig back home to Washington State. I love Art including many fine genres. I love music, and drawings. Reading literature i am not so good at but i love to read short stories and poems. I am a poet so i use big words when i talk sometimes. I have favorite words and phrases and use them to confuse people. I am a huge tease, and i see that as an ART! not everyone is good at it and it takes practice! I am all about defending gay-rights. so if you want to get into a heated debate with me bring up 'civil unions' or imorality, but be careful i may throw you a new train of thought. And if you miss that last trian home it's your own fault. I come from a big family i am one of 8 brothers and sisters. I am agnostic and enjoy learing about new and advert religions. anything mistical grabs my attention, along with shiney objects. If you would like to know me, talk to me and i will gladly write back! but do not give my friends a reason to hate you, or else i have to deal with it! OH.... And i am a Thespian so i can turn sarcastic and dramatic.