I've been single so long, I'm used to it. I would like to find the right guy though. I am 100% straight acting. I have recently come out to most of my friends and it is the best thing I could have ever done. It's a shame it only took me 34 years to do! The only gay trait I have is that I like men. I'm not into shopping or fashion. I'm a jeans and hoody guy. I work on my cars, house, what ever needs to get done. I'm a low maintenance, non materialistic guy. I love being outside and do whatever I can in nature. My favorite season is summer. I spend most if it in my pool or at the beach. I also spend several weeks in the summer touring the U.S. with a World Championship Drum and Bugle Corps. Music has always been a part of my life. I was a trumpet player back in the day and was pretty damn good! If I actually practiced or applied my talents, who knows where I'd be today. On the flip side, I love winter too. I ski as often as possible. I'm not the biggest fan of fall but living in jersey my whole life, you get used to it. My regular job is in Law Enforcement and I also have a side business in health and nutrition. I help coach people to the desired bodies they want. I once weighed 100 lbs more than I do today and I love helping others attain their health and wellness goals. I have been a volunteer EMT for 13 years and if you name it, I've seen it. I have a infatuation with helicopters and I fly model ones. I am going to get my pilots license as soon as possible and want to start flying the real ones. There is just something about hearing that jet engine spool up that...well, you might just not understand. I have to admit that I love to be the center of a conversation. I enjoy nothing more than making people laugh. I have a great sense of humor which is of a sarcastic nature and borders distasteful at times, but I know how to curb myself when in public (for the most part). Although, I make fun of everyone and everything, I am a softy at heart and would never do anything to offend someone. I have also been told that I have a great smile. Hell, I'll say it. I DO have a great smile. Teeth are something very important to me and you better have some nice ones too!! I exercise regularly. I run 5-10 miles several times a week and have finally started lifting again after a 3 year hiatus. What I'm looking for in a guy is one that is straight acting, and my age or younger. I know some people get offended at the "straight acting" phrase, but it's true. I've always been attracted to straight guys and I know that's what I like. I'm not into effeminate guys or ones that are so out you can pick them out from a mile away. I believe in being honest with who I'm looking for. I just want to be upfront so there are no surprises.