Hi, my name is B.J. or at least that is what all my friends call me being my initials are easier to say and pronounce then my first name. Under normal circumstances I usually cannot talk about myself because I never know what to say but I am going to attempt it anyway. I’ve been trying for sometime now to obtain a life of stability that I have once had. I am almost comfortable with my life however, I am still working on some odds and ends that will help me accomplish my goals. Currently I am attending classes online at Strayer University and majoring in criminal Justice. So far I have managed to keep my grades where I feel they should be and feel confident that I have made the right choice. I have recently changed job sites for work and am currently working in Indiana as a supervisor. I was not too happy with the move at first but I think I will like being there over time. In life I have found that friends are far and few and only true friends stick beside you. I have come to realize that I normally can only find two or three of these at a time and for some reason find it hard to keep or even make friends with someone my own age to just hang out with. Does anyone these days know how to just relax and have fun? Does everything have to revolve around sex? I am and have been told several times that I am a nice and caring person. Although some see that as a good thing, it has caused several heartaches over the years. I am still the same caring person but it has become a lot harder to pass the new barrier. I am a pretty easy guy to get along with. I am normally willing to do things and hang out once I know a person. I know this statement has been worn into the ground but life is too short. Let the brain in the head on your shoulders do your thinking and the heart in your chest not the heart and brain in your shorts.