My name is Swanzie - and before you ask - yes that is my real name. I have been described as "not the normal gay man." What that means? I am not so sure. Maybe it's because I don't use my sexual preference to define me. I have goals in life and do my best to acheive them. That doesn't mean that I am successful all the time, but it shows that I need to re-evaluate and try again. My life is not perfect, yet isn't in shambles either. I am very content with what I have, but always looking for that opportunity to grow and adapt to what is presented in front of me. I am ready to share my life with someone else. Someone who will compliment me, and that I can compliment in return. Not looking for a "just add water" relationship. I would lilke to meet someone that I can call my best friend and have an emotional connection with also. Sex is great, but it shouldn't be the entire basis of a relationship. I woud like to meet someone who enjoys life, and what has been given to him, but is also willing to keep striving for the best in his life. A man who enjoys the relaxing side of a weekend, or vacation by staying home and spending time together. Someone that can understand we don't have to be together EVERY second of everyday, but makes our time together special and meaningful. I know is sounds like a lot, but i am not willing to settle for just anything. Thanks for taking the time to read about me and what I am looking for. I look forward to hearing from you.