I tend to talk to myself and constantly forget
what I was about to do...comes with age I think !
Hi, my name is Terry or Keith...your choice. I'm a
42 ( DAMN I'm gettin' old !! ) year old gay man
just trying to live.I'm from a small NJ town
called Cinnaminson. I raise to 5'5", brown hair ,
green hazel eyes, 142 lbs ( and stilll shrinking !
). I have an art degree and a writing Diploma, but
currently work at the WAWA food markets ( go
figure !! )If you stop in to say hi..look for the
little short guy in the deli...I'll probably be
miserable CAUSE I LOVE MY JOB THATTT MUCH !!, but
don't take it personally and don't think that's
who the real me is okay !! I'm kinda shy,just part
of who I am !!!, but once I get to know you I'm a
friend for life !I don't have perfectly straight
teeth, I'm not tall dark and handsome ( I'm an
average guy )Have to say though, I do have a
couple itty bitty love handles,,,, I'm currently
working on that !!Losing about a pound a week (
need to lose about 5 or so ! )NOTE: if your
looking for the perfect Alpha Male go read a novel
or something or come back to reality !!I like to
paint, I like to write down my dreams when I wake
up...I have some FREAAKKYY dreams man..maybe
someday turn them into short stories !I also have
some FREAKKKY friends, but I love em' all !! I
enjoy hitting the Park Tavern or the Jughandle Inn
once a week for a couple beers and shots...hey, I
don't get out much so that's my party !! I am
currently a smoker, but looking into different
treatments to quit..gotta do it..New Year
resolution !! my sense of humor?? Well, I describe
it as old fashioned for the new century. I grew up
with a lot of older folks, parents, aunts &
uncles so I kinda picked it up from them. I need
to mention that I currently live at home. Now,
don't get the wrong idea here..I by no means am
looking for or have a free ride !!! I can take
care of myself thank you very much...I just can't
quite afford to live on my own right now !!But
hey, I pay half the bills, rent and grocerie shop.
Basically, I'm taking care of my parents now,
suppose it's a role reversal thing..anyway,I'm not
a millionaire and have had some bad luck in life,
but I'm coping and won't let it hold me down.
Please, don't hold it against me..promise, if I
meet that right guy, I won't bring you home to
meet the parents !!!...not at first
anywho.......Well, that's about it. Anything else,
ask me !!! MY STORY: OKAY, SO I'M GAY !!!!! Should
have known all my life. Shit, I had a fling with a
guy in the neighborhood from the age of 15 - 18.
Tried to kiss him once...he wouldn't..it was over.
All about the sex I suppose.Didn't date girls much
at all..almost got married at 18 though..THANK GOD
THAT DIDN'T HAPPEN..WHERE WOULD i BE ?? I came out
late...in my twenties. Took me a year to share
with my friends...the respones..IT'S ABOUT DAMN
TIME !!! Apparently, my close friends knew before
I did. I lost a few, gained a few, re-gained a
few....all par for the course in coming out to the
world I suppose. Didn't change me though. I don't
float about or skip, my voice didn't change to an
ear peircing pitch....I don't wear sparkles on my
face ...I'm not putting anyone down here, takes
all types to make up the world and i'm friends
with most every type you can think of I'm just
describing myself and not neccesarily who I'm
looking for. The HEART is the biggest part of
importance in my book !!I've had one 5 year
relationship...we're now BEST friends and I've had
a couple experiences...nothing too thrilling !!
Anyway,normal man here just looking for a normal
men to ne friends with and maybe a special one to
spend my life with. Guess I've said enough for
now.I'm looking to meet anyone who thinks the same
as I do. Friends are always a good thing !! A
really nice guy wouldn't hurt either !! I'm not
stuck on any type particular as long as you at
least take care of yourself and not a lazy slob
!!!!Have a vision of what you really want out of
life, wether within your reach or not...dreaming
is important !!.I like to meet people who are
different have an almost out there look at life.
If your interested let's talk .I would like a nice
long term relationship down the road somewhere
though...hmmmm !!!!! I'm not INTO ANYTHING nor do
I have a SCENE.I don't believe in anal
sex...course I never tried it, but statistics say
only about 10% of gay men regularly practice, so
it 's not a MANDATORY practice so to speak...just
something that is shown as mandatory on porn so
many gay men think it is necessary. SORRY GUYS
!!!!I've been mostly an oral, cuddler kinda guy. I
know..right to the point, but I don't know how
else to put it !!! I'm just the regular guy next
door !!I haven't met a lot of gay people,a couple
friends, an ex / now best friend, so I'm not
really all that experienced in the land of gayness
!! Been to the gay bars a few times, try to go
couple times a year just to keep in touch with
myself if that makes any sense. Maybe someone out
there can show me the wayyy!!! Anyway, I guess I'm
looking for friends to do things with...have
fun...camping, movies..whatever if the right guy
clicks with me...that's more the better !! !! I
need more FUN IN THE SUN !!! Maybe it's male
menoupause..ARGHHHH TURN ONS: Bald men and
redheads, but I'm really NOT that picky !! TURN
OFFS: People with cell phones attached to thier
faces !!!I don't owm one just because I work with
the public and I'm sick of seeing people walk
around talking on those little blue tooth things
like they're special or something not to mention
not bieng able to put the phone down for one
minute to talk to you or how about the people that
just walk around with thier necks creaked over to
hold the phone,but not talking to anyone..GODDD I
HATE THAT !! Okay I'm done...told ya I didn't like
them!!! As far as networking is concerned.....
Anyone interested in having an existing/new piece
of furniture inside or outside ( ie: mailbox,
table,frames,jewelry box,birdhouse etc..)painted
with one of a kind art work,I do every design only
once making it one of a kind, or just a
portrait...HEY, I'M UP FOR ANYTHING...give me a
yell and we can talkkk !! Check out some of my
artwork in my pictures under the album MY
ARTWORK.I'm less expensive than others because I
ask for your EXISTING furniture or toys....I
refurbish then and then paint anything you like,
so there's no product overhead. I can however, buy
a new product and paint it for you if you like to
price accordingly. Also, I will send finished
products through the mail !! ASK ME ALL ABOUT IT
!!! I also create gift baskets for any occasion
!!! Pictures to come soonnn !! Thanx ! Wanna see
more ?? Go to....
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