I am 55, my partner is 74. We are actively looking, open to adding another one or two guys to our relationship, as committed partners. We are open to play if the situation was right and the attraction was mutual. Our primary goal is adding someone 21 to 55 to our fold, someone that is their own person, not wanting a "daddy" to take care of them, but wanting a mature man to love and form permanent bonds with. Our preference would be someone younger who can help us to be healthier and more energetic, who we can support as they develop their own life as well. We believe that love is not confined to just two individuals, that it takes a village to satisfy our needs. So a third or even fourth partner would fit our needs in a society that is intent on making us fit their mold.