I was a happy little kid, that bounced about on happy feet. A warm and loving teenager that was generally accepted by every group, clic, and person of whose path I crossed. Today, I have become a beautiful man. But so are we all.. Or rather we can be. Men that were so hot, I couldn't breath around them. Sadly, I wouldn't have dated 99 percent of them. There was very little substance to build on, beneath their polished exterrior. I'd take someone "a few extra pounds" with a beautiful smile, and the willingness to trust and change, over any of them. If your young and your hot and you know it?.. Good for you! You meet a standard of beauty many people don't.. It doesnt make you any better. There's a 100,000 other guys out there, just as hot, or better. modesty is nice, but humility goes a lot further. You'll all get "older" and we're all headed to the same place in the end anyway. It's love that carriers a relationship long after the inital novelty wears off. Far from perfect, I do believe that two people CAN be perfect FOR each other,and am looking for someone willing to take a chance on leap of faith, to build a life with.