A friend of mine told me to try out a gay oriented social networking site when I came out to him so I'm just giving this a try and seeing how it goes. I'm from northern New Jersey but go to college at Goucher, just outside Baltimore, MD. I'm a bit of a geek with my interest in computers, politics and urban planning. That said I do have a large number of friends, a group of them at college have forced me to break out of my normal areas of interest to be part of an intramural soccer team.