I am not into partying much and not into going out (to clubs), except on a very rare occasion. Sex is not the biggest thing, but we should be attracted to each other. I simply want a guy where we both belong to each other, hang out, do things together, maybe go on weekends or vacations together. Please be younger than me but not too young... late 20s at the youngest to 50. Sorry if this sounds judgmental, but please don't be fake. Nothing wrong with us all wanting to look our best but if you're my age and are blond, we're probably not a match. Not really into sports but I come across as pretty masculine other than that. I am not straight acting... I am straight appearing... that's just me. I usually wear things like jeans and casual shirt, so yes, I am saying I am not into fashion. I would say my favorite interest is traveling but obviously most of us have to work. My favorite places so far are Spain (I have not been to any part of Spain I don't like) and would like to see more of it and Amsterdam. I don't get high, but I like the casual atmosphere there. I am generally into Caucasians and Latin guys but that's not written in stone. And last, I am kind of passive, so it's likely I would not approach someone else but would respond if someone I am interested in approaches me.