I'm that guy you always see around, but never you know his name. I'm also that guy that everyone claims to have a twin somewhere else in the world. Trust..there is only ONE ME. :) I have my own swag. I once received a Christmas card saying that I walk to the beat of my own drum. Kinda pissed me off at first, but then I thought about it and it wasn't so bad. Besides, who wants to be like eeeeeeeeveryone else? I've done the whole 'party scene', the 'dating scene', and dabbled a little in the so called 'make everyone else happy scene'. Now I'm starting to realize that I'm not a big fan of scenery and I'd rather just be myself and do whatever makes me happy. I'm content with my life and the choices I've made, good or bad. I take it as it is and I move on. I've learned that love begins when you finally see yourself as true by forgiving yourself and forgiving those who've hurt you. I'm starting over, remodeling myself and learning as I go. As for romance it would be nice to have a sensible, decent, MATURE love of my life, but since there seems to be a shortage of guys with these qualities I'm not sweating it. I'll continue to float around until someone stirs up the water enough to make me take a second look. I've been in-like, in-love and practically in-sane and I've realized sometime there's nothing better than just being by yourself. I try to avoid drama as much as possible. Actually, it's one thing I will not tolerate in any type of friendship/relationship. It just makes life so much more difficult than it already is. What happened to just accepting things as they are and leaving it at that? People these days put way too much emphasis on trying to destroy each others dignity and pride. My motto, if you don't like what someone is doing...or what they're saying...their clothes...situations they get themselves into, etc...then stop paying attention to it and focus more on your own business. The close set of friends I have now will never be replaced. I love them dearly and would do just about anything for them and they pretty much already know that! I'm always up for meeting new faces. However, freakish closet cases and shallow douche bags need not apply. Never understood that. How can a minority (gay person) be racist against anything that's not "normal" in their eyes? There's only one true judge and that's God. Anyway, if there's anything else you'd like to know please feel free to ask. I'm just like a good book that needs to be read, but it will never happen if you don't make an effort and turn the pages. :)