First and foremost My names Gary. I'm 42 this year. I'm half Pacific Islander (mom side) and German/Russian (dad side). I have dark brown eyes, hair (at least whats left of it - not ready to shave it yet, still like having hair on the top of my head LOL). I recently moved out into the country trying to get back to the basics, being self sufficient - grow and raise my own food. I like having friends (fwb - is a fun idea, but its not the first thing I think about when connecting with people, I would rather have someone to chat with). I love the small pleasures in life (waking up to warm/brisk clear days, the smell of hot chocolate, a hug from family and friends, talking to friends near and far), I have cherish each and everything that has keep me warm and fuzzy through my life to date. So happy thoughts and a good life to you all.