I'm 40yo,28w, 5ft '7in,143lbs, brn eyes, great smile. I'm not perfect and I will not pretend to be. I like to party, dance, enjoy an eventful night, but also love to spend nights at home curled up on the couch watching movies or MTV's Real World or anything else that may be somewhat stimulating.love to entertain and have friends over for dinner. Cooking is a blast. I have a wide range of interests, just ask. I love life and intend to live it well. I value my family and friends. I can be laidback yet stubborn on some things. I believe its better to be honest with people the first time excuses get us nowhere. I love being outside and in the sunlight. I remind myself we are all different and have varying expectations about each other and life in general so I try to not wear my feelings on my sleeve. Hugs rock bitchiness does not. I think having a loving and generous heart is way undervalued in our world. I'm the type of person who will love the bar one day and want to be away from it the next. And being with someone during those times makes it even better. I am looking for . . . I don't know what I'm looking for. My tastes and wants vary. I've had the worst luck with men, and have been burned too much for being such a nice guy. I do have high standards, but that's not to say that I don't always follow them. So, what am I looking for? Ultimately? I don't know . . . "the one", just like everyone else in this world. But "the second", "the third" and "the thirty-first" will have to do for now. I am ready to move past the one or two date relationships and get to know someone on a long term basis and be happy with that person for long time. I am a nice guy who likes everyone, but I am shallow enough to say that I want somebody I find physically attracted to. But once again, those tastes vary so we'll see. What I have been missing out on most is a New Years kiss. Sounds cheezy and what not, but I would just like to enjoy it just once =) I am not looking for a sexual escapade. I don't want anything just based on sex on the first day, I want a relationship. I've had my share of sexual relationships and one nights stands and I'm ready to move on. I want something more. If you think you meet all my requirements, don't get your hopes up, cause remember, I'm picky. Anyways, send me a line if you want to talk or know something more, i've got nothing to hide. I'm an eclectic person whose views on life and what not vary with the passing day. I tend to be a shy individual at first and I will admit that it is very hard to get to know me. I have never allowed myself to give myself completely to someone. Looking for , a guy who's honest, sincere, caring, respectful, happy with who he is and glad to be alive. Someone with a good heart and already has their own life. Someone who doesn't live each day to see how many problems can be created to cause drama in their life and the lives of others. I'm a very patient person, but I have zero tolerance for who put other people down...there are plenty of other ways to make you feel good about yourself.Just be happy, caring, outgoing, fun, somewhat spontaneous, adventurous, passionate and sexy (of course, that last one's up to me. Unfortunately, as we all SHOULD know, we find who we find sexy...it's a personal preference...all we can do is hope its mutual) Please if you don't have a face pic or older than 45yo please don't bother, just my preference, no offence to anyone.