I am not your typical gay male. And I am also sick of the gay community, what it stands for, and the people who give gay men a bad name. Why can't someone think of the other person for a change? Why is it that everyone is always out to get one thing, and one thing only? Why does people think their lives are gonna end because they don't have a boyfriend? Can we all stop and look at the big picture for just a moment, just for an instant and see ourselves making mistake after mistake. The breaking of people's hearts, the spreading of disease... infecting one innocent victim after another? Is this really what we want to be labeled as?........ Personally, It makes me sick to my stomach. Personally, it makes me wish I were straight. But thats something I can't help. I'm the way that I am am. But, that does not give me the right to go out and see how many people I can have sex with in one night. Nor does it give me any right to trample over innocent people, be cocky, and be something that I am NOT............................................... .... ..................... I know that I am not alone. And I would really like to get to know people who believe the way that I do. Someone who has morals. Someone who seeks a "true relationship." Someone who knows what he wants, as I do. Someone with a heart. Someone who isn't afraid to show his true feelings. Someone who is a TRUE MAN. Not someone that is impersonating to be a female. Since I consider that being an oxymoron. Geez, it seems that's a lot to ask for these days. (ie: someone that is trying to be someone that they are not and try to impress someone they "like" - because "pretenders DO NOT impress me.).............................................. .... ......................... Why can't we all just be ourselves, and not live a fake lifestyle? I will tell you this. When you speak to me, I am "real." When you meet me, I am "real." What I say is who I am. Believe me or not. So when you message me wanting to "hookup" consider yourself ignored. I'd rather be single for the rest of my life, than have a fake relationship, living in misery as most gay people do. Call me arrogant if you wish, but I am entitled to my opinion. I am entitled to what I believe in, and I shall forever more live to my morals and my standards. Don't that me the wrong way but that is why I do not like the gay community because no one is true to one another........................................... .... ......................... All I am looking for is a "real" relationship. Someone who isn't afraid to come out of their shell. Someone who's a romantic. Someone who is a MAN. Someone with a great personality. Not someone who's angry all the time. I want someone with morals... a person who believes that sex is considered sacred - something that never should be abused. Someone who believes sex isn't everything. One day, I hope to find him. But as for right now, the chances of success, are slim to none. - Prove me wrong............................................. .... ......................... Last but not least, if you over 30, DON'T WASTE MY TIME! I would much preferably be with someone around my old age then with someone who I can call "daddy"