I so dislike defining myself but here it goes. You must have a "PIC" or be willing to give me one on request!!!! I am new to the Shelby NC area after relocating from Palm Springs CA after a 6 1/2 yr relationship, I decided that I need to be closer to family and he did not, so here I am again. We are still friends and talk often. I am now living in the Greenville area now, finally. I am not looking for a quicky or a one night stand or one who enjoy's games. I also am not into the bar/club scene as I feel that those day's are behind me, not that I am opposed to occassionally going out. I am very comfortable being a nester, doing thing's around the house and yard. Being with family and friends are very important to me and should be for you as well. I am looking for someone that I can enjoy spending time with one on one at the movies, Dining out/in, exploring new areas and things together. Friendships are my goal, as I am not ready for anything serious at this point. I am very comfortable with who I am at 44 and don't need nor want someone who think's that they are or should be something else, be who you are. I do not expect something to happen over night, however I do beleave in destiny and that thing's and people come into our lives for a reason. If you know who you are and want to explore getting to know someone like minded, let's meet and see where the journey takes us. I enjoy working out but have not done so in a while and need someone to do it with, want to work it, let's meet and give it a whirl. Life is to short for games, so if you are serious I look forward to meeting with you and seeing where it takes us. Be true to yourself and all that is true and good will follow!!!! I am an optimist by nature most of the time as well as being a Libra and am told that I live by the definition fairly well, I like balance with a bit of adventure and intrigue with a twist of mystery. I want what we all truly want that are honest with ourselves, just to be accepted and love unconditionally and to return the love with pure honest emotion attached with pure affection. Be true & honest to your self and it will be returned to you 3 fold. So there, I have done it, I have defined myself and who I am looking for. What do you think... If interested let's meet and see where the journey take's us. I look forward to meeting you I haven't become a member just yet, will do so very soon. You will have to contact me if you want to talk.