Alright, I'm going to cut to the chase. I've tried the hooking up thing, and I've realized that, personally, I need an emotional and intellectual connection in addition to the physical one. There's nothing wrong with hookups, and I'm not in any sort of position to pass judgement on anyone it just doesn't work for me. What I want is to meet a guy who I can carry a conversation with and spend time with. I consider myself open-minded and not intellectually lacking. I'm at least a decent conversationalist, and more depending on the topic. I'm attractive and confident enough to be okay with my flaws. The one thing that everyone can count on is my honesty. I try to be compassionate and caring. The only thing missing is someone to care for. That being said, I know I'm not perfect. I know I'm not God's gift to man and I try not to think I'm better than anyone. However, that doesn't mean I have no standards, but I'm willing to give a lot of things a try. The point of this post is to see if there's someone in Athens who a) doesn't only care about sex (which is not to pretend that he doesn't care about sex at all, but that he has other things on his mind also) and b) can talk about a wide range of topics (which may or may not include stereotypically "gay" things). I'm wary about the whole internet thing, but frankly I have no gaydar and I don't want to offend anyone by assuming anything about them, just like I don't want people assuming things about me. At least this way I know you're gay, and I don't have to go to Blur to find you. If you think we could have a shot, send me a message and we'll see where it goes. There are no guarantees in life, but it's worth a shot.