Me: I'm just here, living whatever plans I have for me. I'm a bit of an oddball, & am not very predictable. My spirit is too ancient to understand the separation of soul & gender, & because of that my love is too beautiful, too magic, too music, too complicated, too delicate, & too sanctified to have it thrown back on my face. I need to be loved & haven’t the audacity to say where are you & don't know who to say it to. I still crave vulnerability & close talk. You: I want passion. Let me know you stand for something, & you're not going to fall for anything. Fight with me. Prove me wrong. Be wrong. When you see I'm upset, don't let me just sulk, find out. Push me. Don't wait for me to just talk about my problems. Don't let me hold it all in. Talk to me about stupid shit. Travel with me. Be willing to pack up & just leave with me. Ideally, I want someone who I can have fun with. I want someone to hold me when I cry (& when I‘m smiling), make me laugh, brighten my day, & not be afraid to pick on me. I want a man who’s strong enough to tell me when I’m being a pain in the ass, & who’s man enough to admit when he’s being a pain in the ass himself. I want someone who can take care of himself, & in turn is able to take care of me. I want a man who can deal with my clumsiness. I want a man who will go to the theatre with me, let me babble about anything I want, & act interested even if he’s not. I want a man who isn’t afraid to tell his friends about me a man who isn’t ashamed of me. I want a man who’s not going to try to change me, but who will change me just by being in my life. I want a man who will respect me enough to wait until I’m ready for a physical relationship, & who can acknowledge that, though it is important, it’s not the most important thing. I want someone who knows who he is & is confident in that, someone who will be loyal to me & love me, & someone who will not only tell me I’m beautiful when I look like crap, but actually believe it.