Here is something to think about... Instead of thinking mainly of sex and who you can "do", think of all the things you can do to help others see what they are missing out on. Im not saying that you should go and rub it in their face saying "I have this and you dont" that is not the point, if someone is struggling with any kind of problem, see if you can help them out. If you know a deaf person that needs a friend, take the initiative and learn to communicate with them and befriend them. If you know a person with no job, help them find one and befriend them. If you see a person stranded on the side of the road, offer them a ride. Show others what you are made of, and not what you profess to be. The point of this life is not to see how much we can get, but how much we can give. That is the joy of life, "To give, and not count the cost." (St. Ignatius Loyola). There are many people that are suffering in their own right and life. Look past the outer perception and look at that persons actions. Find out what makes them who they are, and show them who you can be. Don't be the person who looks only on the outward appearance, look and see the person for who they really are. Take a step back and look at the "whole picture", if everyone did this the world would be a better place to live. “What is uttered from the heart alone, Will win the hearts of others to your own.” (Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe). Take heed to these words I have so passionately typed. If you wish to know me then read this, and you will. If you have any questions send me a message or find me online sometime. I will gladly answer any questions that you have.