Im 23, and a fairly straightforward guy. Im interested in finding a long term relationship but experience from online dating sites since I was 16 tells me they are there for other reasons, so I am not expecting much. Besides, can you really "find" a long term relationship? I dont drink very much and dont smoke at all, but I dont mind being around other people who do, as long as you know your limits and I dont have to take care of you. I like going out and doing things every night, and I often do. I play in a band that gigs out 90 percent of the week. I write and play video games and Im a dork but I also like playing sports dancing and fighting. Yes, fighting. Be able to defend yourself :P If you want to chat, catch me on aim. No one younger than 18 or older than 28 please! Id like a guy who acts like a guy, whos got his emotional shit together, and can go to a rock show and concentrate more on the music than on me. Dont cling, just sing along :) aim-ihateoldgreg