Hey guys wassup,, I'd have to say I'm pretty much a contented and partnered gay guy, that is very proud and privileged to also be a full time parent as well. I love my sweet Canadian man and all three of my kids without end. All four of em just mean the friggen world to me. My life is full and busy these days , between graduating here in May with a 4.0 grade average in Addiction Counseling, being a full time parent, planning my upcoming same sex wedding in Oct.and just living to the fullest. Sure some days are better than others but I cant really complain. My days are filled with the love of family and friends . I have the most wonderful family that has only these past four years gotten to really know me after 25 years of a crippling methamphetamine addiction that all but ruined my life and in turn theirs as well. My friends here in Santa Cruz are to numerous to name and are the absolute most wonderful group of supportive , sober and crazy fucking people you'd ever meet I love them all and wouldn't be here without them My sexuality , its alive well and hardcore. Im very open and masculine ,love to socialize , no femmie or queen crap here just real man on man,,,,,,well,,,er uh , you get the idea eh?!My lover is probably just the polar opposite of me yet together there is a unique balance of love, respect and understanding that surpasses anything I could have ever dreamed of,, If youve found me here on my space please know that you have not found your typical gay guy, nor your typical good guy in fact not your typical guy at all ,,,peace ,,,Jimi