approachable, calm, laid back, optimistic, slightly shy until I've had a shot of tequila... I'm never sure what to put in these "describe yourself" boxes... but I'll wing this as best I can... I'm from all over, I bartend, I read alot, and I stay involved with my community, I know life from both sides of the track, and I'm happy to make it this far... would it be more complete with a "boyfriend"? probably not, but relationships can be fun and fulfilling, one night stands have been old, and solitude can be nice... so with that I'll be happy to make a friend from this site, maybe hook up once in awhile when I'm horny, but I seriously doubt a husband can found, LOL!!