If you are going to message me it will have to be after you read my profile. I did not write it just so there are lots of words on here. Whether you read it or not shows me how interested you really are. I think somebody who is willing to be a good friend to go slow and take the time to understand a person and get close on a emotional and intellectual level. Is the person most likely to find love. I think friendship plays a big part in a relationship. My name is Tommy I was born in Michigan but I have moved a lot in my life. I have lived in Pennsylvania, Maryland, Virginia and Vermont. Most of the moves were with my family. I have yet to find the place where I fit in and find something stable and lasting. I enjoy nice long walks, meaningful conversation, playing certain sports and music is almost like an addiction for me. I do like going shopping but I don't need to be doing it all the time, being around friends and going to places where I can learn things. I enjoy museums of anything, aquariums, zoos, planetariums anything that makes me think and teaches me things about history and our world. I am a laid back individual and at first can be a bit shy but once I get comfortable I am a very open person. I am not a fan of people who are so into themsleves and who they are, where they have been and what has been handed to them in life that they think there better then others and have the right to treat people like shit. I enjoy the rain I like listening to it hit the roof and walking in it. I love to dance and it does not matter where as long as its a good beat. Nature has always been a huge fascination mostly cause I am so curious I like to learn about everything from History to Geography to Astrology and beyond always looking to open my mind to more things. I am always willing to stand up for what I know to be right and to learn when I am wrong. Some may call it foolish but I love with my whole heart because I feel people have forgotten what it really means to love another person. Being able and willing to look beyond ones own self and desires is a lost concept in this day and age so much to the point where when a real person comes out of the crowd he gets pulled back in by the pathetic notion that only assholes and liars make it in this world. I will not be labeled and I will stand alone if I must and wait till I finally find that person who is willing to love me as much as I would love them. Love is not a percentage a chemical or some secret code, its not something that can be perfect and can't be planned. Love is effort and understanding a deep caring for somebody, for exactly who they are and because that person is the one who makes you happy.