So about my build ... I've been going to the gym a lot. I put on weight at the gym in muscle faster than I lose fat. I'm big and meaty. I like it that way because, honestly, who wants a twig when you can climb the whole tree? *g* I'm attracted to quality things. Quality doesn't mean expensive, though they sometimes go hand-in-hand. But when I say quality, I mean everything. I like quality foods. I really enjoy the freshest fruits and vegetables. I like the highest grades of meat I can get. I like free-range chicken. I'm big on making sure I get the highest grade and freshest fish I can get (sashimi or sushi grade tuna almost always). Herbs are bought fresh for dinner whenever possible. All of this really does make the food not only taste better, but it's better for you. I like quality clothing. Whenever I can I get the highest natural fiber content in blends I can get. Wool, cotton, cashmere, silk, standard and suede leather. Not only quality fabrics but quality craftsmanship and style as well. Who cares if I've got a great cashmere sweater if it falls apart in three months? Quality things make me happy. when I clean my house, I not only clean what can be seen, but I move furniture and fixtures and dust/vacuum even what can't be seen. I don't like cutting corners. I figure if you're not going to do it right, don't fucking do it. ) These aren't things that I expect from others but they are definitely pluses to a personality. I just try to hold these standards for myself.