How can you put into words all that you'd like to express? How do you say all you want to say to capture his attention? Hold his gaze... Pique his interest... Hi there... if a hat were something to define me, mine would be white, but I have a tendency to like the black one too. I'm not just a guy who considers himself one of the good guys... I have more than one dimension. I'm a really nice guy... funny, articulate, intelligent, handsome, seasoned, open-minded... blah blah blah. I could go on, but I am not one to toot my own horn. Get to know me on your own. Find out for yourself what makes me tick. I'm looking for friends and to go from there. Sure it would be swell to find the man of my dreams, but that will come in time. Friends are important as is family, but balance is what counts in life and I'm good at that. I'm interested in a great variety of things... and I'm always willing to learn about new stuff too. Take a chance... in the meantime... look me up and say hi sometime. Live well!Again, it's too difficult to simply put it into a few words here to describe what I'm looking for... I think I'll know it when I see it or else I'm gonna miss it. I do like an honest man... a tender and romantic man... a strong and compassionate man... a true and honorable man... an adventurous and funny man... a kind and thoughtful man... someone who has a strong sense of family and friends... someone who is like me in some ways that we have common ground... someone so different than me that we can learn new things in life... someone who is their own man, but who can love me like I would love him. I want a love that lasts forever... Yes, I do have some high expectations, but there are a lot of men out there with a lot of these qualities. I know the right one will come into my life when I least expect. You have to believe in the magic of love. You have to be open to it. Open your mind. I'm not able to say I have one particular type so nothing is set in stone, but I'm also aware of what attracts me and what doesn't... we try not to base too much of our thoughts on the physical, but the physical is not to be overlooked. Why lie to ourselves? Chemistry is there or it isn't. That's how life is... So enough of this meandering divergence... like I said above, take a chance 'cos ya jus' never know! :)