“A real friend believes in the real you, even when you doubt yourself.” I start this post with a quote, which is something I strongly believe in. This isn’t going to be your typical post looking for sex (as most are on the internet). Instead, this post is going to represent who I am as a person and who I’m looking for in my life. Everyday has been a journey for me so many paths to choose from and so many directions to embrace. Being only 25 years old, I’ve learned so much in a short time not just book smart, but commonsense as well. Life plays tricks on us all, and being gay makes life even trickier. My biggest fear being gay is being alone. It’s very seldom I see a homosexual relationship last for more then one year. When I do see those relationships pop up, it’s because the couples are looking for a “third.” I ask myself over and over again, can they truly be happy with one another and love one another? Why, do the gay relationships require the “third” after so many years? When I go out to the park for a run I see families together and older married couples who I can still see by the way the interact, after probably 30 years, are still in love. Then I again ask myself, “Why can’t I see this happening in my life?” It’s something I really want. I hold a good job, live in a gorgeous condo, and have the materialistic things I want in my life. I have friends and family who support and love me unconditionally and have experienced a life of travel and adventure. I maintain a healthy lifestyle workout, eat right and most importantly, I treat everyone I encounter in my life, with respect. Sadly, it’s not always mutual. I will go above and beyond to help a friend out. Yet, I sometimes wonder why I do this, when most of the time, the favor isn’t returned when needed. I will say yes, I feel I’ve gotten used by so many people, but I blame myself for it. I let my guards down and my weakness shine through. I’m not one to jump into the party life and get all dressed up to go out to the clubs to impress someone. I highly doubt I’ll find the guy of my dreams at a bar called “Woody’s” or a club called “Pure” (both places are nice and I have nothing against them, just stating my opinion). I don’t need to drink an abundance of alcohol to have fun with my friends. Trust me, I’ve done it before, it didn’t make the time much better. So, what I’m looking for is simple, I’m looking for someone real. We all have our preferences, so I don’t want to sound shallow or anything when I say I don’t want a relationship with someone over 33, or someone out of shape. For a relationship, I have to be attracted to the person both physically and emotionally. Race is not an issue at all. I just really do ask for someone who is at a stage in their life, where they’re happy, set with a steady job, and can handle their own self financially. Be able to have a good conversation, but have an amazing sense of humor too. I want a person who I can be with, and without even saying anything, know just by looking at him, he’s meant for me. I want to be in a relationship, where when we’re together at a party, and our friends are surrounding us, being on separate ends of the room, that I can look over, and catch him looking at me, smirking, knowing just how much I mean to him. It’s not impossible to have I’ve had it before in my life. It’s just not so easy to find anymore. As for friends, all can reply, but I by no means sleep with friends (okay I have made an exception to this but 99% of the time I stick to this). Just be outgoing, friendly, and as drama free as possible (we all have drama in our lives, I just don’t want a friend who could have their own soap opera after their life). So now I’ll sit here waiting for replies, to see who actually read this entire post. Time will only tell to what happens…. But I know for sure, I’m heading in the right path this time. :o)

TELL US ABOUT YOURSELF - The survey for gay guys
What do you consider yourself?	Gay
How old are you?	25
Do you currently have a boyfriend?	No
Are you a top or a bottom?	Versatile
Have you ever had oral sex?	Yes
Are you out?	Yes
How many sexual partners have you had?	6-20
Are you cut?	Yes
Do you have any tattoos?	1-2
Do you have any piercings?	None
What kind of underwear do you wear?	Boxers
Have you ever had sex in a public place?	Yes
What gets you off the fastest?	Blow jobs
Do you like to watch porn?	No
Have you ever had group sex?	Yes once
How big are you?	Bigger than 9 inches
What's your favorite sexual position?	All of them
Do you have any naked pictures of yourself?	Yes
At what age did you loose your virginity?	13
How often do you masterbate?	A couple times a week
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