Hi I'm Pat(rick). I'm short, and STRAIGHT EDGE. People are free to do want they want but it's just not for me. I love to spend money but hate to work, although I love my job...paradox... I'm a super nice guy. I love driving around in my car. It's a waste of gas, I know. I have a particular affinity for shoes...26 pairs currently, I know, more than any guy should have. I really enjoy playing music. Piano is my favorite instrument to play, although I'm not the best. Also love drums, guitar and singing. I used to be huge into theatre, and still love it when there's time for it. I'm a New York State EMT, it's fun. I spend a lot of time volunteering for two prehospital care agencies, as well as a county EMS management system. I LOVE going to the mall. I also love the Fall, and walks at night. I listen to a TON of different kinds of music but NOT country...ick. Oh, and Dawson's Creek is pretty much the best show ever invented, and I am ready to accept that...you know you will too someday. Would love a sweet, easy-going guy. Love skaters, emo, prep, but honestly anyone who is sweet, real and committed. Not at all particular about any one "label". Some tattoos are fine, basic body piercing is hott, especially lip rings :-) Would prefer healthy guys who intend to stay that way. I'm certainly not a star athlete, but try to lead a healthy lifestyle. All in all, just longing for that spark with a genuine thoughtful young guy like myself.