I need friends more than anything right now but If i could describe myself i would say i am to be the most charming person you'll ever meet. I that guy who likes to sit in the very back and watch everything happen because it's not always what you say. It's what you do. What you show. I watch for the good people i can surround myself with. People who aren't closed minded and don't mind exchanging or sharing their life experiences. I believe luck is preparation meeting opportunity... If you hadn't been prepared when the opportunity came along, you wouldn't have been lucky anyway. After all, ''experiences is what makes up a person.'' so I always try to surround myself with only people who are going to lift me higher. People who inspire me and make me a better person. I say this because lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but at the end of the day i'd rather have someone who will take the bus with me when the limo breaks down... And with me you'll never get to know me by chatting to me. Yeah, a lot of guys want it easy but unfortunately you'll only get to know me by being with me. While having sex with me may not take you far or to many places... a relationship with me may. That's the kind of person i am. I guess i am pretty exclusive. For some i may be a private person but i don't think so. i'll give all my love but im not giving up my soul. That's for my soulmate :) -------------------------------------------------- ------------ PIERS MORGAN: Well, what made you fall in love with him? -------------------------------------------------- ------------ JADA PINKETT SMITH: I would say Will came at a time in my life where he saw beauty in me that I didn't see in myself at the time. And, you know, he saw a diamond in the rough and kind of, picked me up and blew off all the dust and said, I'm telling you, I'm going to make you shine girl. -------------------------------------------------- ------------ PIERS MORGAN: He certainly did that. -------------------------------------------------- ------------ JADA PINKETT SMITH: Right, exactly. So, I was going through a really rough time and, you know, he created a really safe space for me to get healthy and to grow and define myself. -------------------------------------------------- ------------ So i am in the united States where marriages from abroad are not valid however i am willing to migrate and sacrifice my country for love and honor i deserve and the right to marry whom i want to marry not what the government wants me to marry. ''If home is where the heart is,'' then where he is my home.'' I just need a place to began and until i create that place i am still looking for that place! WHO I WANT My outlook begins with surrounding myself with positive energizers (people) ''Surround yourself with only people who are going to lift you higher.” Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down. Those are the people i want in my life and will be my friends. MY INTERESTS & HOBBIES Movies, Riding bikes, Jogging, Fishing, Swimming, Cooking, Pets, Gym, Beaches, Performing arts, Walking in the city, Going out at night, Dinning out, Taking bubble baths, Traveling, Exploring the world and its cultures, Experiencing the finest things that life has to offer! MY IDEAL BOYFRIEND My husband, my best friend and my everything. Who loves me for all of that i am and made of and won't change a thing! He'll be by my side for life no matter how tough it gets and accepts all of who i am and not just the parts that are easy to like. He believes marriage is not love but a commitment. Shows me sincerity, patience, trustworthy, honestly, a since of understanding, has compassion for each other and most importantly, communication. That is my type of love. QUOTES I'M RELATED TO I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle but if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.'' - Marylin Monroe "Step back, stop judging and understand that everybody has a story. Everybody got there for a reason and people are who they are." - Ellen ''No judgement, you don't know peoples situation circumstances.'' ''If you judge people, you have no time to love them'' - Mother Teresa "Be thankful for what you have you'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never, ever have enough." - Oprah ''When you’ve worked hard, and done well, and walked through that doorway of opportunity … you do not slam it shut behind you … you reach back, and you give other folks the same chances that helped you succeed.'' - Michelle Obama (DNC 2012) MOVIES IM REATED TO: Friend: I think what you are doing is so great, to open up your home to him. Honey you are changing that boy's life. Leigh Anne Tuohy: No, he is changing my life. - THE BLIND SIDE Topher Grace: In a relationship you have to accept the other person for all of who they are and not just the parts that are easy to like...And your stupid if you turn your back on something as important as love - THE VALENTINES DAY Will Smith: Don’t ever let someone tell you that you can’t do something. Not even me. You got a dream, you gotta protect it. When people can’t do something themselves, they’re gonna tell you that you can’t do it. You want something, go get it. Period. - THE PURSUIT Of HAPPINESS Wesley: I don't know what's out there, and what's waiting for me 'but w *** ver it is, I'm gonna find it. - GOOD DEEDS Mo'Nique: No Judgement, because you don't know people circumstances. - PRECIOUS Mo'Nique on Ellen DeGeneres Show - 11/03/2009 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aj2UWcGTxEw OTHER MOVIES THAT TOUCHED ME... - GET REAL - the movie i first knew i was gay. i teared :D - Love Actually - He's Just Not Into You - Crash - Titanic I LOVE HORROR MOVIES! SORRY :D Hellraiser, freddy, texas chainsaw, hills have eyes, wrong turn, resident evil, hostel, blair witch project, all kinds lol and COOL MOVIES LIKE x-men, transformers and twilight. THE BEST of JIM ROHN ''You must constantly ask yourself these questions: Who am I around? What are they doing to me? What have they got me reading? What have they got me saying? Where do they have me going? What do they have me thinking? And most important, what do they have me becoming? Then ask yourself the big question: Is that okay? Your life does not get better by chance, it gets better by change.” ''Don’t set your goals too low. If you don’t need much, you won’t become much.'' ''Take care of your body. It's the only place you have to live.'' ''Time is more value than money. You can get more money, but you cannot get more time.'' ''Don't wish it were easier, wish you were better''. ''Money is usually attracted, not pursued.'' ''You cannot change your destination overnight, but you can change your direction overnight.'' ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~