Better then the guy next store... I'm a highbred, I like to say I'm a babyblue collar worker / professional... I'm a Marine, I lift active duty in 1993, "Once a Marine, Always a Marine... I was Married for 16 years devoiced in 1996 and have two daughters... I knew I like guys at a young age... but did not come out till I was 38... I've been looking for love in all the wrong places... I have found it a few times... But it keeps running away... I'm very picky on three things, on hook-ups: 1. I will hook-up with some Bi guys "If your Bi and could fall in love with a guy and are versatile, your ok" Other wise go away.... 2. If you like to talk about what is going "wrong" in your life in the first twenty minuets after we meet... Go away! 3. Safer Sex is all about trust, if you say your going to show and do not... Go away! I am versatile and adventurous.. I will try it once, if I like it I'll try it twice, if I love it I'll climb a mountain to get it... I love teaching and learning.. Why would you not kiss and cuddle.. I do not understand bi guys that will not kiss but will suck your cock or take it deep in there ass and to me it is a lot more intimate to have a big cock in your ass... My heart is bigger then my wallet... Sometimes I will overextend, to be able to be with a guy I think might be the one... I'm HIV- But If I'm attracted to you.... Falling in love and being in love would transcend HIV status I do not like or do scant, S&M, blood or fisting. Water sports in the shower is ok in moderation...