Hi, I'm a thoughtful, caring, loving gay male (bi-sexual I suppose, but lean 99% toward gay), who is 54 years old, searching for the same. I am not a mind game player. I've been though enough of it coming my way to know what it's like. I don't like it. I don't do it. I am exactly as you will know me. I am open and honest, approachable, non-critical or condemning. I am someone who makes an effort not to be abrasive or "jabbing" or critical of others. If something is bothering me, I just mention it and work through it as best I can and move on forward with the person... gently, lovingly, thoughtfully, compassionately. I am a gentle person, but not a pushover. I am caring, but not weak. I am vulnerable (as we all are), but I'm not fragile. Still, I offer "shelter" for human vulnerabilities because we ALL have natural human sensibilities that make each of us autonomous. We ALL have a right to be safe, to feel safe, to love and be loved. I am not a man who is abusive. I am gentle, loving and caring, but I'm not a wimp. I'm a lover. I am seeking the same. I am also versatile (top or bottom), and oral (the best I can). I'm only 5ft 5in tall and weigh 133 pounds. I am slender and still in pretty good shape. I am STD free and DD free. Please be, too. I take good care of my body. I am clean. I don't like surprises. Please be a clean person, too. I'm financially stable, own my home, have a newer car, and I take care of myself. I am seeking the same. If interested, please contact me. Thanks!