Looking for "The One"

I'm a gay Christian (I know, I am coming to terms with that myself as I always thought that being gay + Christian was an oxymoron) looking for friends and then if that turns into more then awesome...if not, then I've made a new friend. I'm not the "judgmental" type of Christian who will beat you over the head with a Bible if you don't believe how I do...just, my faith is important to me even if I'm not always perfect or don't always live it like I should. I am straight-acting and straight-looking if that is important to you. Most people say that I look like I am in my 20's and can't believe that I am 40. I was involved in the "gay scene" for a couple of years from the age of 19 to 21 and was saved at the age of 21. For the past 20 years I have struggled with my homosexuality and have "ignored" it but have just recently come to terms with the fact that I am never going to be "straight" or can't be "cured". I have two adopted boys, one is almost 16 and the other is 9. I like to read, write, watch movies, exercise (I usually do weightlifting 4 to 5 times a week) ride bikes, run, work on home renovations and projects, work on the computer, do graphic design (I have a Bachelor's Degree in Graphic Design), spend time with my boys and family, swim, shop, go out to eat, camp, hike, fish, travel (I've been overseas 10 times in the past 8.5 years), eat sushi, volunteer, help others in need, take missions trips, etc. I am not into games and am looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with in a committed, monogamous relationship. I have been told that I have a great sense of humor, that I am friendly, honesty, loyal, trustworthy, nice, sweet, cute, fun to be around...man, it's hard to stay humble!! lol : ) Thanks for taking the time to read my profile. If you are interested then send me a message. I'm here first to make friends and then see what happens. : )