initially on this site i was all about hookups. that is not my thing anymore. i'm actually looking for a nice easy going relationship. i go to school in the nations capital but live out in the chicago area. i am not out fully however i'm working up to get there. i am not totally into the flamboyant guys i am interested in the intellectual professional straight acting gay guy. i'm looking for someone either no more than two years younger than me or one year older than me. i love talking to people. especially if it has to do with either politics or debatable subjects. i do not believe in labels gay/straight/bi because for me it's i love people. not gender. but i'm more attracted to men. lets talk, lets hope something can happen.